About · Francisco Ruiz

A musician who thinks the room is the instrument.

Francisco Ruiz has been gathering people to sing for nearly three decades — in kindergartens and conference rooms, on cathedral steps and library carpets, with executives and toddlers and grandmothers who hadn't sung since their own grandmothers were alive.

He started Withness because he kept seeing the same thing happen, in every kind of room: a few breaths together, a few notes shared, and the air in the room changes. Strangers soften. Teams find each other. A community remembers what it is.

Withness is the work that's come from that.

Francisco Ruiz leading a singing workshop, gesturing warmly to participants in a circle
Philosophy

What I believe about singing together.

Five things, after three decades of doing this.

i.

Everyone can sing.

The only people who cannot sing are people who've been told they cannot. The job of the workshop leader is to undo that, gently, in the first ten minutes.

ii.

The room is the instrument.

I'm not the soloist. The group is. My job is to listen to who's actually in the room and find the sound that wants to come from them today.

iii.

Presence is the point.

The performance is not the goal. The breath-by-breath being-together is the goal. Anything we make musically is a byproduct of paying attention.

iv.

Joy is serious work.

I take fun seriously. A laughing room learns three times as fast and remembers four times as long. Lightness is a craft, not an accident.

v.

Music is medicine, but I'm not a doctor.

Singing together regulates the nervous system, releases oxytocin, and lifts mood. That's real. But it's a side effect of doing something beautiful. We come to make music; the rest follows.

My story

How I got here.

A diverse group of adults singing together in a workshop space

I grew up in a house where someone was always humming. My grandmother in the kitchen, my uncle on the porch, my mother in the car between errands. None of them would have called themselves singers. They sang anyway. That's the singing I grew up with — not the polished kind, the alive kind.

I trained formally — voice, composition, conducting. I sang in choirs and on stages and in studios. I learned how to make sound technically beautiful. And the entire time, what I kept missing was the kitchen.

Twenty-some years ago, I led my first workshop almost by accident. A friend running a nonprofit in East L.A. asked if I would do "something musical" for her staff retreat. I had no script. I led them in a couple of simple rounds, listened to what was happening in the room, and made the rest up. At the end, half the room was in tears and the other half wanted to know when we could do it again.

I've been doing it ever since. In schools. In hospitals. In libraries. In tech companies and law firms and city halls. In Spanish, in English, in a dozen languages I cannot speak. With grandmothers and teenagers and CEOs and toddlers — sometimes all in the same room.

I called it Withness because that's what I'm actually trying to make. Not a concert. Not a class. A few minutes of being with each other, fully, while making something beautiful together. Everything I offer is some version of that invitation.

I'd love for your community to be next.

What people say

Voices from the circle.

"Everyone should have a chance to experience the musical magic that happens in a circle singing workshop — there is a deep spiritual connection experienced individually and collectively through shared breath and song. In these times, making space for beauty is essential to our survival. Francisco's workshops are surely one way to make that happen."

Rev. Theresa

"Attending Francisco Ruiz's circle singing workshops has been nothing short of transformative. His ability to create a space that is both structured and free-flowing allows singers of all levels to tap into their creativity, connect with others, and experience the power of spontaneous music-making. Francisco's warmth, expertise, and intuitive guidance make every session feel like a journey — one where you leave not only a better musician but also more in tune with yourself and those around you. His passion for vocal improvisation is contagious, and I can't recommend his classes enough!"

Moana A.

"Francisco is simply magic. His improvisation-based workshops will help your singers become free, confident, independent, and honest in their music making!"

Rob Dietz

"Francisco Ruiz's Music Ministry is the embodiment of our highest ideals and aspirations as Unitarian Universalists. I've been fortunate enough to be so sore from the wounds of the world on many occasions, then to enter worship spaces where he is singing solo — with Afro-Latino drums, rhythms, and communal singing, as well as our treasured historic and contemporary hymns — and have my soul restored. I've also sung in a Unitarian Universalist choir only twice in my 25 years in this transformative, living faith: once for a Graduation Choir at Starr King School for the Ministry, and once for a Finding Our Way Home Choir where Francisco, Amanda Thomas, and others helped me reconnect with this SACRED part of my being. For this, and so many other reasons, Francisco's singing, and his playing of so many instruments and styles, leads to more of the Beloved Community wherever he shares his GIFTS and TALENTS."

Rev. Chris Long
25 Years a Unitarian Universalist

"There is so much to love about Francisco's Circle Singing workshops. From the moment it began, I felt immediately welcomed into this circle of strangers. Francisco is an enormously talented improviser — but he also has an uncanny ability to make each member of the circle, no matter their musical background, feel safe, included, and inspired. I was so kept on my toes and in the moment that the hours quite literally flew by. And when it was over, even though few — if any — words had been shared among us, I felt connected to a whole new circle of friends."

Alison Lewis

"Francisco is a passionate and compassionate teacher. He illuminates the truth of music: anyone can sing if their heart is in it. He creates sacred musical community effortlessly, and everyone is welcome in the circle. I am honored to have had the opportunity to sing and lift up the divine with him."

Heaven Walker

"I have experienced many sessions of Circle Singing with Francisco, and each one is always a unique experience. Francisco is expert at reading the mood of the room and knowing which direction to lead the group. He can start out humming and leading joyful rhythms, then in the blink of an eye organically guide the group into the most beautiful and meditative experience. If you want to try Circle Singing, try it first with Francisco!"

Amanda M. Thomas
Mezzo-soprano & Conductor

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